Thursday, November 30, 2006
⥠a butterfly landed @ 9:19 PM
Monday, November 27, 2006
Kepada suami ku yg tercinta Sufian selamat hari jadi mu yg ke 33 tahun. Tak ada apa2 yg sempat dibelikan. Dinner kat EATZI dah cukup rasanya. Hahaha jangan lupa Aisyah in december n mine in january ok :). Birthday gift mesti best2 tau.
Love,
Diva 25
ps next year nak kena tukar diva26 :P
⥠a butterfly landed @ 3:57 AM
Sunday, November 26, 2006
My last wkend was boring. I have to go for full day course. I dun really enjoyed my course i think the trainner dun conduct the course well. I finished my course around 5.30pm. Sufian fetached me n decided to go back home. I was sleepy n tired. My family wnt to KL so i am left alone. :( but i heard that they buy alot of things for me. Can't wait for the surprise. hhehehe.
Alhamdulillah 2 wkend is over for me. I got my cert n hope for the next 6 mths dun want to have another wkend course.
⥠a butterfly landed @ 9:25 PM
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Ok i suppose to meet up with sufian @12pm for lunch in TM. At the very last minutes he can't make it. So i have to eat my lunch alone :( So i decided to eat Yong Tau Foo. Fuh eating alone can be boring. Btw this morning ari fry for me Roti telur. So boleh dikatakan kenyang jugak. I'm alone now so i decided to update my blog :P My new job allowed us to check e-mail. I can also update my blog often hehehe.
Tonite my family is going KL. I will be going to be alone in singapore. Boring Sey nobody will be here this wkend. Doakan mereka2 yg pergi selamat dan jangan lupa balik. 4 cars will convoy to KL.
Love,
Diva25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 9:15 PM
I have seen this time n again, Singaporean dun have the courtesy to give in to disable n those with stroller. They will try to walk faster than u to go near the door lift so that they can go in the lift first. They have seen signage in the MRT, Buses, LRT N Lift that give way to ppl with pram or wheelchair. Why singaporean have this attitute that they dun wan to give up their seat to those who need the chair more than they do. I have seen the kiasu even run for the seat. When they saw pregnant lady or even women with kids or old ppl they pretend to sleep. Pls we know such tricks. They should have this campaign to educate the singaporean (kiasu) to be more civic-minded. U Try to imagine yrself in their situation. Pls singaporean out there i urge pls be more considerate.
Love,
Diva
⥠a butterfly landed @ 4:40 AM
congratulation to Yana n Hattan coz they managed to go to Sec 1. Wow i just can't imagine 9 years from now i have to go through the same thing. I just hope that aisyah n aiman will do well in their studies.
love diva
⥠a butterfly landed @ 4:14 AM
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
20 more mins to go before my lunch. Call home to check what are the kids doing. Ask ari to fry the fish. So later 2nite i will cook for dinner. Sufian won't be coming to fetch me. :( So have to rush home to cook. This sat i will be on course for the whole day. Can u imagine. :( Dun have the time with my family, Btw sufian make plan with nek som. They wan to go Vivocity. So i told sufian only aisyah is allowed. But not aiman. I am soo phobia. As u know he just recover from Hmfd. I just hope that nek som will understand. Sufian if u happen to read my blog dun forget to fetch me on sat @ 5.30. OK got to go. Its my lunch time yippee bye.....
love diva
⥠a butterfly landed @ 8:49 PM
tonite i didn'tn cook so i have to eat char mee. Thot of asking sufian to eat dinner with me outside. But he said that he eaten alot just now. He went to orchard hotel to have lunch with his colleagues n principal (farewell dinner for his principal). So 2 bad my dinner is just maggi mee :(
I am coping well with my new job. Maybe i'm still young. So i catch up with the new changes. The trainer are very patient with me. So i dun have problem with them. One of my working colleague quit 2day. :( She just can't take the pressure n the changes (from CIAS for 14 yrs)
Out of 7, 1 is gone. Left with 6. This sat i will have my course from 8.30m to 5.30pm. Gosh i will be very tired.
Planning to go Sentosa again. This sunday
Anyone can give me ideas what present can u get for yr special one??? anyone??
⥠a butterfly landed @ 3:08 AM
Sunday, November 19, 2006
Haha the wkend is ending soon. I went to VivoCity this late afternoon after having 2 hrs of nap. I thot of just going to Compasspoint to have our dinner n let my 2 kids play car ride that cost $1/- per ride. But we end up going to Vivocity. I went up to 3rd floor (outdoor area) that mainly for kids to get themself wet. By looking at it i dun think that the water is clean. Furthermore my kids just recover from HMFD. I have to take extra precaution. I dun allowed them to go even to the play ground. I let aisyah enjoy herself. She ask me for ice-cream n fries i get for her. We didn't really walk that much coz of time faxtor but we managed to go giant n bought for aisyah n aiman toys bricks n notebook for them to learn n play . So i took some photos n will update soon in my blog. Ok adios n gd nite.
Btw i saw my o;d colleagues Sarina @Vivocity. She look ok, Even though after her mother
pass away.
Love,
Diva25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 6:09 AM
Saturday, November 18, 2006
Psychologiest have identified 4 behaviour type of each individual.
CAREFUL
Orderly and systematic
Deliberate and unaggressive
Enjoy study and analysis
Critical thinker
Detailed and thorough
Well organised
Likely accuracy
Weighs alternatives
Needs standard operating procedures
Likes detailed guidelines
Steady, quiet manner
Dislikes sudden or abrupt changes
STEADY
Eager to please
Helpful
Lacks interest in goal setting
Not highly competitive
Has difficuly saying ''no''
Loyal
Calms excited people
Good Listener
Need Security
Lets others take initative in soial
Situations
Patient
Enjoys helping others
INFLUATING
Persuasive
Social Outgoing
Sees possibilities
Informal
Fun Loving
Energetic
Creative
Lack of concern for details
Like participating in groups
Creates motivational environment
Doesn't like to be hemmed in
Open with feelings
DOMINATING
Result oriented
Accepts challenges
Strong-willed
Takes initiaves
Willing to confront
Makes decisions easily
Ambitious
Sense of urgency
Takes authority
Assertives
Like solving problems
Questions the status quo
What type of person are u??
⥠a butterfly landed @ 6:19 PM
Ada cerita menarik di depan muka surat Berita minggu. Pasal anak dari yg nak tamatkan zaman daranya. So they have this Hen Party. They will call the male stripper to perform in 5 star hotel. Some even terlanjur with the stripper. O h my god what is happening to our malay society. They just want to follow the westener. Apa2 org barat buat org islam pun ikut sama. Tuhan kasi kita akal untuk berfikir. Mana yg baik dan mana yg buruk. So sebagai org islam kita jgn buat benda2 yg boleh mendatangkan dosa.
As for me, 2002 mana ade this hen party. I come from a very strict family. I cannot go out unless my father approved. Org peranakan memang selalunya strict. Everyone of us are afraid of my dad (even my mother too) We have to listen to him. So alhamdulillah i tak terlanjur or buat benda2 yg boleh mendatangkan dosa.
Now at my new work place majority are smokers. I mix with them but i dun follow them when they wan to smoke. I am a mother of 2 kids so i think from now i have to show all the good example to my kids.
my advice to the ladies of there (muslimah) janganlah ikut2 cara org barat. Mereka tak tahu dosa dan pahala.
Love,
Diva25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 5:46 PM
Semalam aku sepatutnya keluar dating dgn sufian. Tapi bila memandangkan yg sufian sedang syok tidur aku rasa lupakan saja. Dia ckp lepas aisyah tidur kejukkan dia. Pas tu boleh keluar dating. Dah 1 minggu aiman tak tidur dgn aku. So aku rasa lebih baik aku ambik dia dari bilik ari. Rindu sangatlah. End up sufian, aisyah, aiman n myself tidur together2 :)
I always looking forward on sunday to have the family time in our room. We will cuddle each other. Aisyah will be with sufian n aiman will be with me. So sape2 yg belum berkeluarga takkan rasa berapa bahagianya mempunyai kelaurga yg lengkap.
love,
Diva25
ps: planning to go VivoCity if my both children are well enough.
⥠a butterfly landed @ 5:37 PM
I told sufian that this saturday i want to rest n relax at home(due to feeling tired at work trying hard to learn as fast as i can) But abt 5.30 am i woke up, just cannot sleep. I wake sufian up. I told him that i can't sleep n asked him whether he wan to go for breakfast?? Abt 6.40 he took his shower. We left home abt 7.20am we went for our breakfast at afganistan. I bought for myself roti n sufian bought roti prata. We headed to the market bought Ikan pari n ikan kerisi. So today i cooked Asam Pedas Ikan pari. I finished my breakfast, marketing n cooking around 11.20. The day passed very slowly. That is the benefit of waking up early. I slept n wake up around 5 pm Surfing the net on my bed. Hehehe soo relaxing with no stress at work.
Ok as for my work like i just said (trying hard to learn fast so that i can confirm within 3 mths.) When u are new i tnink it is just normal that u will bullied by the older staff. Farah have to be patient with them. Everyday i will have headache, so stress that i can't even eat lunch time. I can only drink coke to reduce my headache. Even when i reached home i just wanna go to my bed n just sleep. When u have kids they will want yr attention once u get home. So i have to sacrifice my tiredness n accompany them.
I hope next wk will be a better wk for me. Insya allah.
⥠a butterfly landed @ 5:08 AM
Aisyah n Aiman are down with HMFD. Last sat aiman was supposed to have his 15mths injection. He had flu, so the nurse said that it was better to check with the doctor. Aiman was unlucky as he was having fever 37.6 degree i think. His fever didn't subside for few days. N on sunday Aisyah was also having fever. Monday was ok not that high. On tuesday when i reached home from work i saw aisyah was lying down in the sofa with blanket. I touched her forehead, it was hot. So i took her temperature 38.9 I didn't changed my uniform i went down straight to the Clinic. I registered for aisyah, to my horrow i saw aiman with red spot. So i decided to register for aiman. Aisyah was seen but (punya susah aisyah meronta2. nak take temperature) Dia punya Temperatures was 40 degrees. So the doctor decided to insert a bullet into her anus so that her fever can subside. She was given 5 types of medicine. When its Aiman turn, the doctor who checked him said that aiman had HMFD. I was shocked, dun expect aiman to contract with HMFD. He was given types of medicine. I was FCL for my both my children. But to bad i can't take the FCL (family care leave) bcoz it is just my sixth days of work. As a mother i felt sooo useless bcoz when my children are sick i can't be there to nurse them :( But bersyukur that my new work allowed me to call home or even used our handphone. At least i can asked Ari how my children's condition.
So this wkend 18/11/2006 n 19/11/2006 aisyah n aiman are quarantined at home.
As for me, sufian n myself will have our date when the children are asleep.
Love,
Diva25
ps: mama doakan aiman n aisyah akan sembuh secepat mungkin. walaupun my kids dun even know how to read.
⥠a butterfly landed @ 4:00 AM
semalam seperti biasa, lepas kerja aku dan sufian jumpa n plan nak gi makan dinner. Friday sape suka nak masak (org gila aje yg masak hehehe) So i decided to go Deen Biasa near to jalan sultan. So we ordered a plate of mee goreng n Kueh Teow, roti milan (similar to kebab but serve with fries) n 2 cans of coke. So i went up to the cashier to pay for my food. The bill come up to $16.60 (sufian asked me how much does the meal cost?) We headed home, on the way turning to serangoon. I found the mama bill me wrongly. The mee goreng n kueh teow cost $3 x2=$6
roti milan cost $4 n 2 cans of coke cost $2.60. Total amt should me $12.60. So i asked sufian to head back to the ''MAMA SHOP''. I was soo pissed off with the mama so i went up to the guy who received the money. I asked him to recount the bill. So he took out the paper that he wrote the amt. He konon2 look blur. So i asked how much does the roti milan cost? He ans me $8. I showed the pic of the food behind n he said $4. Few mama's came up to the counter to check that mama blamed another mama. Whatever it is just cut the crap return my $4.
I'm not trying to be customer from hell. But this is just too much, If each customer he cheat $4 so 100 customer they will
Love,
Farah Diva 25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 3:30 AM
Saturday, November 11, 2006
I have to go for anger management. It is because aisyah always make me angry. She will always have to shout, cry and throw tantrum just to get the things that she want. Where else aiman is very quiet boy he is not a whinner unlike aisyah. Sometime i can just get stress when aisyah throw tantrum. She is a dominent type of person. She want things to go her way, if not she will try to make everybody listen to her, tried many ways to discipline her, but she ok for 1hr, the nx hr she will start her nonsense again.
Aiman is steady kind of boy, he dun throw tantrum, The best thing is aiman is afraid of me if i rise my voice. He can listen to me. Every kids have diff attitute. So i hope the terrible 2 will go away soon for aisyah.
⥠a butterfly landed @ 5:57 PM
Yesterday, my family, frens n myself went to marine bowl in East coast, It was exciting thing to do since it is my first time to see Sufian score. Check it out the score n the pics. So see sufian pose hahaha mcm expert player.⥠a butterfly landed @ 5:34 PM
Friday, November 10, 2006
11/11/2006 Aiman is due to have his injection in Sengkang Polyclinic. His appt time is 10.15am. We are one of the kiasu who come early to register. The funnier part is that they prompt me saying that Sorry u are late for yr appt. ( I reach there abt 9.30am how can i be late for my appt) I approached the counter to ask. So this lady was nice to help. I waited n waited but my no was not call. The pt after me was already seen. 10.45am i went to the room to ask why other no are call but not our no? The staff whom i ask ans me with the unhappy look.
The reason is that Aiman file has not reach the room. I was sooo piss off, u should at least let me know or just have the courtesy to inform us abt the c/s cannot be found, at least i'm noted abt it. I went down to the registration counter to ask. The lady was helpful to help me. She assure me that the c/s is up in the consultation room. I went up again n waited abt 10 mins later my no was call. Aiman was weight n his height was also measure.
She want to assure that aiman is not sick so she want aiman to be check by doctor to confirm that he is ok. But we was unlucky aiman was having slight fever 37.7 deg. So we have to postpone his injection. He was given medicine to eat. We have to wait for abt 45 mins just to pay n get our medicine. What a tiring day n all the wait was wasted :(
PS aPPT IS CHG TO NEXT WK SAT @8.15AM (ANOTHER WAITING TIME)
FARAH DIVA
The reason is that Aiman file has not reach the room. I was sooo piss off, u should at least let me know or just have the courtesy to inform us abt the c/s cannot be found, at least i'm noted abt it. I went down to the registration counter to ask. The lady was helpful to help me. She assure me that the c/s is up in the consultation room. I went up again n waited abt 10 mins later my no was call. Aiman was weight n his height was also measure.
She want to assure that aiman is not sick so she want aiman to be check by doctor to confirm that he is ok. But we was unlucky aiman was having slight fever 37.7 deg. So we have to postpone his injection. He was given medicine to eat. We have to wait for abt 45 mins just to pay n get our medicine. What a tiring day n all the wait was wasted :(
PS aPPT IS CHG TO NEXT WK SAT @8.15AM (ANOTHER WAITING TIME)
FARAH DIVA
⥠a butterfly landed @ 9:04 PM
Thursday, November 09, 2006
6th of November is my first day in......(shall not mention where i work) Due to some reasons. The 1st and 2nd day was our orientation n was fun not doing anything just sit down n relax listening to the speaker. We attended Service From the Heart on the 3rd n 4th day. Pretty long n till fun. I was happy bcoz we can have our Handphone with us n we just have to silence it. (So anyone that still in AH pls tell yr supervisor that her rule are just stupid) Crazy rite no hp in yr pocket. Let say anything happen at home u will be the last to know. N who u want to blame??
Ok tomorrow is the real thing, I have to be prepared to take down all the new things and get to know new working colleagues. U might not know who is nice n who is nasty. So i must try to learn as much as possible. Btw 8 years in AH, reminded me of the good time. My life began there ever since i finished school, the day sufian in Perth, planning to get married, Pregnant for 2 time, shift to my lovely home and until i decided to find a new job.
Btw is still miss Ah, not the manager or supervisor(can go to ......with them) but my working colleagues, like siti, sulastri, Roslindah, sarina n many more to mention. I just hope that i can adjust to new working environment, make new friends n be positive. The good thing is that the journey is less then 30 mins isn't good? Farah u can do it. Insya Allah
From,
Farah Diva25
PS: Been having restless nite ever since i started with my new job.Ok tomorrow is the real thing, I have to be prepared to take down all the new things and get to know new working colleagues. U might not know who is nice n who is nasty. So i must try to learn as much as possible. Btw 8 years in AH, reminded me of the good time. My life began there ever since i finished school, the day sufian in Perth, planning to get married, Pregnant for 2 time, shift to my lovely home and until i decided to find a new job.
Btw is still miss Ah, not the manager or supervisor(can go to ......with them) but my working colleagues, like siti, sulastri, Roslindah, sarina n many more to mention. I just hope that i can adjust to new working environment, make new friends n be positive. The good thing is that the journey is less then 30 mins isn't good? Farah u can do it. Insya Allah
From,
Farah Diva25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 2:24 AM
Saturday, November 04, 2006
Stress bila memikirkan kerja baru aku. Aku tak dpt rest or relax my mind before going to my new work place. My supervisor (yasmin) sengaja tak nak kasi aku clear my leave. So terpaksa ambik MC to do my stuff before going to my new place. N now tgh fikirkan mcm mana nak adapt to the new environment, new frens n new rules. Hahahaha i can take up the challenge coz kat AH pun apa kurangnya. Next year going to be 8 years working in AH. Tapi tak apa, i get a better offer a better pay why not rite? Bonus boleh lupakan lah hehehe
I am going to miss Siti Nuraisjah, Roslindah, Sulastri, Kak shikin, Azlinda Johari, Sujinah, staff nurse Jamal, Staff Nurse Azizah n many more to mention
Harapan aku buat masa ini,
1) I hope that i can cope with my new job
2) Learn abt my new colleague characters
3) Adapt to new challenges in my new work force
4) Manage my anger
5) TRY TO COPE WITH AISYAH CHARACTERS
Insyallah Farah Boleh :)
ps:Sulastri terima kasih kerana halalkan duit $1 yg aku pinjam dari kau.
Siti has been a good leader ever since she took over Sulaiza (Everybody is happy working with her more than that mak Itam) Gekaran tu bukan aku yg berikan tapi budak2 SOC.
Roslindah that day masa my last day, aku dpt rasakan yg aku akan kehilangan kawan baik aku. My message to u, u failed yr first marriage doesn't mean u going to fail again in yr next relationship. Pls let me know the good news soon. I am going to miss my 2 god son Ashraff n ashrull.
your truly,
farah diva25
⥠a butterfly landed @ 7:57 AM
